Virgo Compatibility - your Love Match Guide

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Virgo compatibility with other signs? Perhaps you are in a love relationship and you want to know what your prospects are for lifelong harmony. Comparison of your sun signs may give a significant clue, but is far from being the only consideration. Your sun sign is an indication of your ultimate goal or purpose in life, so if you consider it important that your lover shares that with you, or can at least support you, then compatibility between your sun signs will help. But what about your temperament? Ascendant and moon signs are much more important in assessing whether there is a good match between your temperaments than sun signs are. For you, lasting love and attraction may depend more on compatible temperament than it does on shared purpose. Your birth chart will indicate whether shared goals or compatible temperaments are more important to you.

These notes about the twelve possible combinations are an indication of the kinds of experiences which may arise for you if Virgo is prominent in your horoscope. But do bear in mind that you and your lover will have planets in other signs, and these may indicate compatibility where possible causes of conflict are described here, or they may suggest tension where harmony is shown here. If you want a thorough astrological analysis of a relationship I offer a

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Virgo Aries

This Sun sign combination can be fruitful provided you each allow the other to have differing goals, or find a way of working together towards a single aim that uses the different qualities of each. The inspiration for any project will come from your partner who feeds his or her ideas to you, and you then chew over the details and find a way of making them work. You may have to be reminded by your Aries partner of the overall picture within which the smaller details have to fit. If you are sure the time you have spent is worthwhile you may have to patiently explain this to your partner who may be in a hurry!

If this is your Moon or Ascendant combination then this love match is an attraction of opposites. The spark of Aries fire can ignite Virgo earth and both can find that exciting provided you accept a temperamental clash from time to time. The clash will arise when your natural modesty and self-effacing qualities clash with your Aries lover's impetuosity. When you have an argument you will think through the issues more thoroughly than your lover is inclined to do, but you may come to a conclusion which, while logically correct, is still not the best for your relationship.

Virgo Taurus

If you have this Sun sign combination you are both oriented towards down to earth matters and the production of something out of the Earth's resources. Your partner's concern is that the product should please the senses, but you may see little point in that unless it's usefulness can be demonstrated. You may need an input of ideas from someone else.

If this is your Moon or Ascendant combination then both of you delight in what the senses have to offer, but it helps if there is fire elsewhere in either or both charts to keep the attraction going, or even to get it going in the first place. You enjoy sensuality but may be inhibited by concerns about the point of it, or you may be somewhat shy or reticent, especially at first. Your Taurus lover will have no such concerns. He or she just wants to enjoy the senses and sees no point in complications.

Virgo Gemini

These two signs have the rulership of Mercury in common, which indicates they should work well together provided differences in emphasis between you can be accepted. Your partner may be full of ideas and quicker to refer to resources in order to gather the information you need. Some of the information may not be worthwhile so you patiently sift through it to separate the useful from the useless. You may disagree about the result. Sometimes a simple adaptation of your partner's idea could lead to resolution.

If this is your Moon or Ascendant combination your Gemini lover may feel like a butterfly that has had its wings clipped so that it cannot stray far from what you consider to be right and proper. If Virgo seeks loyalty it is because it is perceived as the best way of life rather than through any instinct in that direction. Temperamentally there may be a clash between your need for security and your lover's need for freedom of movement. If your lover reads a book or newspaper that he or she finds interesting and then starts discussing it you may find yourself asking whether or not anything useful was gleaned from it. For your lover usefulness was not the point.

Virgo Cancer

If you have this Sun sign combination you are likely to work well together provided your working environment does not generate stress within you. You may work best in a traditional family business, or one in which there is an emphasis on service or health. Innovations are more likely to come from your partner (who is also likely to be more ambitious) while you work them out in practice, but you may disagree about the methods.

If this is your Moon or Ascendant combination the mix of nurturing care and hesitant but tender sensuality may give you great pleasure in this love match. Your Cancer lover may have strong emotional responses that you know how to contain so that they do not extend into areas of life where they do not belong, but take care lest you be a little argumentative in the process. Your determination to please your lover elicits a feeling response that pleases you, both in a practical way and in a way that awakens the senses.

Virgo Leo

The combination of earth (Virgo) and fire (Leo) is potentially good in that earth knows how to apply in practical ways the inspiration that fire provides. But if your Leo partner looks at what you are doing he or she may think 'that's not what I intended at all'! Coming to an amicable agreement about how to proceed can be hard work. Your preference is to administer while Leo prefers to manage, and this can lead to an amicable arrangement, but you may have to challenge your Leo partner on the practicality of his or her plans, while you in turn get challenged to focus on the desired outcome.

If this is your Moon or Ascendant combination your lover may seek your worship and adoration! You may be content to offer this from time to time, but will probably tire of it after a while. Virgo is not naturally subject to leonine rule and has needs of its own, in particular that the practical necessities of life should be observed. Where you are reticent, even shy, your Leo lover may be bold, and you will have to make allowances in this love match for the ways in which you differ from each other.

Virgo Virgo

If you both have the Sun in this sign you are both oriented towards down to earth matters and the production of something useful out of the Earth's resources. You may have minor disagreements over what is useful and what is not. Virgo is a sign that serves rather than leads, and you may benefit from managerial oversight from someone else. You may also need an input of ideas from someone else.

If you both have the Moon or Ascendant in this sign then both of you delight in what the senses have to offer, but it helps if there is fire elsewhere in either or both charts to keep the attraction going, or even to get it going in the first place. You both enjoy sensuality but may be inhibited by concerns about the point of it, or you may be somewhat shy or reticent, especially at first. You could be concerned to the point of obsession about each other's health and physical welfare.

Virgo Libra

If you have this Sun sign combination you may be best working in a discipline where perfection is important. Otherwise you may have to learn that a good enough outcome may benefit more people than a perfect one! The sign combination suggests a mix of precision and beauty. It is likely your Libra partner will have more ideas and be the initiator of any project, while you have more sustaining power and determination to see it through to a conclusion. Tension could arise between you if your partner goes off on some new project while you want to complete what you are doing first. Negotiation of an appropriate allocation of time and responsibilities could resolve this.

If this is your Moon or Ascendant combination you will both strive for peace and harmony between yourselves but temperamentally you may be somewhat different. As an air sign Libra desires freedom of movement so don't try and tie your lover down. If you do his or her desire to escape my increase. Libra also seeks balance, everything in the right proportion, so freedom may be balanced with commitment. If you can detect in what other areas of your lives he or she seeks that balance you can use your skills in the sensual realm to help create it.

Virgo Scorpio

This Sun sign combination can be fruitful if you manage to see how complementary your different ways of working are. You can analyse the issues from a very practical point of view. Your Scorpio partner could see some underlying issues that could derail you, and when you see the evidence you could take it into account when you work on the practical details. If your partner is intensely involved emotionally with an issue you may be able to point out that it is not as complicated as it seems.

If this is your Moon or Ascendant combination you have attracted someone who may have a magnetic pull over you that you find both fascinating and uncomfortable. Your Scorpio lover's intense emotional involvement in your sexual relationship and his or her expectation of a similar response from you may disturb your natural reticence and your mind may lead you to resist getting close in this love match. Allowing yourself to let go could be a major turning point for you in learning to live in the present moment. However, if your instinct for self-protection is activated, pay attention.

Virgo Sagittarius

If you have this Sun sign combination you may feel your partner's ideas have no practical application. Maybe they don't, but if you are unsure try looking first. The differences between you centre around your recognition of the need for detailed analysis leading to the practical application of ideas, and your partner's instinct for seeing the bigger picture. Your patience with each other may be tested, but your two approaches could complement each other if you persist in your efforts.

If this is your Moon or Ascendant combination then this love match is an attraction of opposites. The spark of Sagittarius fire can ignite Virgo earth and both can find that exciting provided you accept a temperamental clash from time to time. The clash will arise when your natural modesty and self-effacing qualities clash with your Sagittarius lover's adventurousness and eagerness. When you have an argument you will think through the issues more thoroughly than your lover is inclined to do, but he or she may have insights that your thinking misses. Ignore these, and you may come to a conclusion which, while logically correct, is still not the best for your relationship.

Virgo Capricorn

If you have this Sun sign combination you are both oriented towards down to earth matters and the production of something out of the Earth's resources. Your concern is that the product should be useful, but your partner may be somewhat more ambitious in terms of worldly success, and usefulness will be subservient to that end. Of course, the two concerns need not be mutually exclusive, and ideally usefulness will contribute to success. You may need an input of ideas from someone else.

If this is your Moon or Ascendant combination then both of you delight in what the senses have to offer, but it helps if there is fire elsewhere in either or both charts to keep the attraction going, or even to get it going in the first place. You enjoy sensuality but may be inhibited by concerns about the point of it, or you may be somewhat shy or reticent, especially at first. Your lover, though wanting to enjoy it, may be inhibited by a feeling of guilt about such pleasures or through being burdened with a sense of responsibility that places social duties above personal pleasure. Maybe it's best if you both laugh at your inhibitions and just enjoy!

Virgo Aquarius

If you have this Sun sign combination you may find working together a challenge. Your patience may be tried when your partner comes up with some innovations which you do not think will work in practice. Such ideas may be worthy of your consideration so don't write them off immediately. Patient discussions may help to resolve most difficulties, but Aquarius does not let go of ideas easily, and Virgo can be so tied up with practical details that the overall plan gets lost.

If this is your Moon or Ascendant combination you may feel your lover has a cool detachment from your mutual concerns that you find hard to live with. Aquarius does not handle emotional situations easily and your earthy Virgoan ability to contain such emotions may be lessened by over-analysis and may not work so well in these situations. Temperamentally there may be a clash between your need for security and your lover's need for freedom of movement. Honest sharing of your concerns without blaming each other should go a long way towards resolving difficulties.

Virgo Pisces

If you have this Sun sign combination your different approaches may mean you have to struggle to work well together. The concerns of your partner may become too all-embracing to be easily accommodated into your plans and you may have to encourage a more focussed attitude to achieve success. On the other hand your focus on minor details could lead you to overlook a bigger frame of reference which your partner can provide. A mutual concern that your work should be of genuine service to others rather than simply a profit-making enterprise could help you to resolve differences.

If this is your Moon or Ascendant combination the mix of nurturing care and hesitant but tender sensuality may give you great pleasure in this love match. Your Pisces lover may have strong emotional responses that you know how to contain so that they do not extend into areas of life where they do not belong, but take care lest you be a little argumentative in the process. If you live together you may feel your lover is careless about home security and other practical considerations involved in sharing a home. Your determination to please your lover, often in little practical ways, elicits a feeling response that pleases you in a way that awakens the senses.

© Richard Hills